Why You Shouldn’t Stick Your Chopsticks In Your Rice Bowl

Published January 12, 2016 in Episode 38

Ever gotten a slap on the hand when you stuck your chopsticks upright into your rice bowl? What’s up with that? Let's dive into three popular Vietnamese superstitions.  

1. The Black Cat

Black cats are a bad omen in many parts of the world, but for the Vietnamese, the bad luck happens when the cat comes into your house.  

We got the lowdown from professor Hoàng Mai Nguyễn. 

Professor Nguyễn says that this superstition is rooted in the belief that when someone passes away and a cat enters the home and jumps over the coffin, the deceased person might sit right up. Apparently this came from a story passed down through the generations without scientific evidence. But since no one wants that to happen, people will do everything to prevent this situation from happening.
 

  Vietnamese people believe a black cat jump over a coffin is bad luck.

Vietnamese people believe a black cat jump over a coffin is bad luck.

2. No Odd-Numbered Groups in Photos

Ever been to a Vietnamese wedding and notice that if there's an odd number of people gathering to pose for a photo, another person will jump into the mix? Well here's the “logic” behind that.  

According to Vietnamese superstition, the person in the middle of three people will be the first to die. Specifically, when there are only three people in the picture, the person in the middle could be the first one to die, and if he or she  does not die, then all three people will receive bad luck.

Again, no scientific evidence, but… who wants to risk it?
 

3. Chopsticks Upright In The Rice Bowl  

Vietnamese elders will react in horror if you ever stick your chopsticks upright into your rice bowl, like this:

  Sticking your chopsticks into your rice bowl like this is a major no-no at the Vietnamese dinner table.

Sticking your chopsticks into your rice bowl like this is a major no-no at the Vietnamese dinner table.

What gives?

Some say it’s because it resembles an incense bowl (with the chopsticks as the incense).

If you take a look at the picture, it’s not too hard to see, right?

Professor Nguyễn says it’s not so much that an incense bowl is bad luck, but because it is so often used during ceremonies commemorating the deceased, it is often associated with a death in the family. She says there's no proof of bad luck occurring because of this, but a student named Lan Bùi says she avoids positioning her chopsticks this way out of respect.

“I don’t personally know if the superstition can bring misfortune but I still avoid it because I consider it as bad manners. It’s a kind of a form of respect for me.”

There you have a brief breakdown of three popular Vietnamese superstitions. Whether it’s out of respect or to avoid risking bad luck, perhaps you can now make a slightly more informed choice on whether or not to adhere to the superstitions.